Monday, 21 January 2013

Admit your mistakes

Today's post is all about you and me reckoning with our mistakes, wrong doings and errors. Believe me when i say no one is perfect, we're all bound to make mistakes and annoy others. It's no longer a new thing to see people who aren't ready to admit their mistakes. If every single soul in this world (i.e. i mean our little planet) fails to admit or reckon with their wrong doings or errors, what would this world look like. I was once a victim of this circumstance but that was in the past. I've made lot of mistakes in my life which has affected me in one way or the other, then i realised it wasn't meant to be that way. When you fail to apologize and make amends for what you've done, you're putting yourself under bondage.
The only way to move forward in life is by admitting your mistakes and make amends. When you admit and apologize, it lightens the burden on your shoulders and makes life easier and bearable. This also causes the other party involved to be relieved and free. No one will challenge you or fight you but you won't feel comfortable. Your conscience will not let your mind to be at rest.
We all should learn to admit our mistakes and make amends.

A Little Truth

There's always a little thing behind every thing. No matter how good or bad the situation might seem to be, there will always be a driving force whether small or big.
Don't ever make conclusions or assumptions if you're not sure of the situation. Try and investigate the whole thing. Let's take a close look at these five(5) LITTLE sentences.

1.    There's always a little truth behind every "JUST KIDDING"
    The fact that someone says just kidding does not mean the person's really kidding. All the person wants is for you to question him further and inquire more.
    Never give up on someone or an issue even if the person says just kidding.

2.    There's always a little knowledge behind every "I DON'T KNOW"
    This is another widely used statement. I don't know doesn't mean the person in question is ignorant, unaware or does not know what is been asked of him/her.
    It might be an intentional act in order to arouse your investigative or interrogative mind or spirit.

3.    A little emotion behind every "I DON'T CARE"
    Whosoever says i don't care to you actually cares but in a disguised form. The person's only trying to hide his care(caring mind or attitude) from being noticed.
    So don't be disappointed whenever says i don't care, instead see it as a source of encouragement. Even if no one shows that they care, don't be discouraged. They really care but won't just show it.

4.    A little love behind every "I HATE YOU"
    Don't get upset whenever someone directs the word hate towards you. It's very annoying to hear someone say it to you. No matter what, you've got to take things easy. The person might not actually mean those words.

5.    A little pain behind every "IT'S OKAY".
    Most of the people who say it's okay are really going through one difficult situation or the other. While they're in pain, all they'd say is it's okay. Why?. Do you think things are going the way they should?. Not really, but what they're trying to do is to bear their burdens alone. It takes great care to ask further and find out what's actually wrong.

Watchout for these five statements: JUST KIDDING, I DON'T KNOW, I DON'T CARE, I HATE YOU, IT'S OKAY and do what's necessary to solve the hidden meanings and mystery of these words.